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COACHING Letting go of stuff in
our lives is extremely difficult for some people.
While some things are easy to discard, others
bring up old memories, deep emotions and indecisiveness.
Sometimes years and lifetimes have been spent building up that horde
of stuff. It is a hidden aspect
of many lives and sometimes comes with guilt and shame.
Hoarding is an attempt at control of life or all that stuff. People who suffer from
this hard-to-treat psychological disorder are unable to discard items
because of a fear of needing them again, concerns over being wasteful or a
sentimental attachment to the items. Some hoarders accumulate so much that
they nearly bury themselves in their own homes. In some cases when we
have troubled relationships, dysfunctional families, etc. our things become
our comfort, our family. “Hoarding is a serious
mental health problem, and serious mental health problems require serious
treatment,” said Dr. David Tolin, director of the Anxiety Disorders Center
in Hartford, Conn. “There is some role for professional organizers, but we
need to recognize that that does not solve the whole problem.”
Hoarding behavior is sometimes present in a number of mental
disorders, including schizophrenia, dementia, eating disorders, and autism,
but it is most commonly found in people with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder
(OCD). You have to let go in
order to make room for new in your lives. Let go of all those negative
emotions that cause you to collect -- guilt, fear, anger, jealousy, etc. As organizers we need to
show that organization is freeing and a liberating experience.
In order to feel free and not suffocating we need to let go of not
only the external clutter, but the internal as well. Continue to check our Links page for additional links on clutter, disorganization and hoarding.
What do
Professional Organizers do?
Do
Professional Organizers work for clients or with clients?
Some clients just don’t enjoy the process of
organizing and hire a Professional Organizer to do it for h/her. Other
clients are willing to organize but need a skilled "helper" to help.
In that case, the Professional Organizer will work side by side with h/her
client. Many clients eagerly want to learn the skill of organizing and
work along side h/her Professional Organizer.
There are clients with
physical or emotional limitations who are only able to work part of the time
with h/her Professional Organizer. In rare cases, some are not able to
work with h/her Professional Organizer at all. In either situation,
h/her Professional Organizer will know how to keep the client aware and
informed along the way.
How do I select a Professional Organizer? Brenden is available for public speaking engagements as well as for training new professional organizing assistants who are interested in becoming part of the organizing world in the Metro Milwaukee area, but also in the rest of Wisconsin.
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